Spiritual Abandonment

When I tell people the areas that I work with in counseling, I usually say, "anxiety, mood disorders, male mentoring, and spiritual abandonment." The last one is the area that many people don't understand. I define spiritual abandonment as, "any action on the part of a spiritual leader or institution that leaves a member of [...]

Why I Love Libraries

When I was a college student, I worked as a library page at a public library.  I loaded and shelved books for the Book Mobile Department, supervised by four ladies in their sixties.  These ladies could have been characters in a southern gothic novel.  One was grandmotherly and chipper, one was sarcastically witty, one was [...]

Running from Pain

  Our bodies, in our fight or flight reactions to pain, try to protect us by avoiding difficult situations.  Physical anxiety is merely our bodies' protection response, providing us with more energy than we need to problem solve, but enough to escape the threat.  However, most of our threats aren't physical.  There are not animal [...]


Relevant: adj. practical and especially socially applicable. Truth: n. that which is true or in accordance with fact or reality. Adulterate: v. render (something) poorer in quality by adding another substance, typically an inferior one. What do we mix with the truth we give our children? If the goal is to make the truth entertaining, does it remain true? If [...]


I have just self-published a chapbook of poetry containing all of the poems I have written for Dominion Christian Schools' seniors over the last nineteen years.  Because I'm not so keen on the whole self-publishing thing, I've also thrown some in that have been published by real literary journals so you don't feel ripped off. [...]